#BEINGLISTENER!

"Listen to me first, you idiot!'
Have you ever been in this situation? I bet everyone has been at least once. And it happens, right? You don't want it to happen, but it does. And it does happen with everyone.
I am not saying that I know everything, but I do at least something and I want to share those things with you so that, you can be better interactor with anyone.
So, has this 'thing', happened with you?
So, it has been there for everyone.

Who knows? The way you react to people, might be the same for you by others. So I feel this for everyone, who is reading this, please, firstly try to listen to others! And this does not mean just listen and reply, it means apprehend them, get the exact idea from what are they going through!
This is so much necessary in a conversation. Otherwise, it just becomes a talk. We don't do talks, do we? We humans, conversate. And the conversation is a two-way thing. You have to listen!

Some times, it becomes really hard to stay calm, to be patient, to carry feelings, that should have calmed down earlier. But we don't let them flow, we carry them, we hurt ourselves, and becomes so heavy to hide something that is constantly hurting you. You have to understand that what situation is your conversationalist facing. Try to appreciate it, try to be on the same side. Recently, I found a post that hit me real hard. It was,

"I find resemblance between people and clouds, no one can hold the thing, when its too much to carry"

The only thing you have to do is try to feel the person, try to communicate!
The only thing that helps in these kinds of situations is to listen. What would you expect from the second person to behave with you while you are 'the' person? You want someone, who would listen to your pain, who would understand the struggle you've gone through.
That is the one thing, anyone would carve for in these situations. To let your mind flow, and not block again by the same thoughts it was once.

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