Fairy lights

It's a nice summer evening, grounds are filled with enthusiastically playing kids, nice summer breezes are caressing through the kids, these winds just need gaps. They find it, they fill it. Everybody needs water, everyone is thirsty, but the game is important! Hunger is roaring through stomachs and delicious meals are being cooked inside the kitchen. The spice of those dishes is just irresistible.  A family. And you are a part of it. You suddenly realize you forgot to serve the pickle, you ask your mother and she just gets it in less than a minute. Everything's just fine and easy. And boom! All of a sudden, you are sitting in a random position in a random room(not your home), with random people, reading this blog post, which you don't know why you are reading! You gradually start to remember all these moments, with your touch, your twists, your way. How did this happen? This significant transformation! Did everybody traveled through time or is it just me? ...

"What have you decided about your future?" Have you ever been encountered by worthless and mind-boggling questions like this? Planning your future is a good thing actually. But it's all bullshit! Trust me. It is. Absolutely. So what are you supposed to do when you are told to plan something about your life, about your career, your future? Let's see what are the things that you can do about this. What actions you can take to manage it. Gain Knowledge:- Gain and gather knowledge about each and every subject you can. And literally, write them down. Do it. Really. It works. (I have already tried it and it did work for me very well) When you'll do this and write down all the possible interests of yours, it will nothing but take time to eliminate them one-by-one. Are you born with the knowledge of your future or something like that? No! You have to figure out how you'd like it to be. You have to carve it as you'd want it to be! And the most import...

Yes, together! Especially, when writing about the teen and adult way of thinking, psychology, in brief, one thing, no one can ever neglect is their reach about other people, about their friend, about their loved ones and crushes! These things define a prominent portion of his/her behavior and the things he/she can do. They dominantly affect the overall nature of the respective being! So, what do these things have to do with the word 'together'? 'Together' indicates love, having someone's back, having support, having affection! Imagine someone, you love from your deep, pure heart, your soul, being with you, in the silent crowd, looking at you, with the exact dedication and affection as you do! That's one of the best feelings in the whole wide world, that one can experience if he has the right company, and they are by words, together! I always write about the blooms of life or how to get into them, but the truth about togetherness is, that it...

What are you gonna do in the next years of your life, and further ahead? Any slight idea? Focus! On what your aims are. If you don't know what are they, You'll definitely find them as you start doing something, and by something, I mean literally anything related to your liking and hobbies. A startup isn't how it looks. It takes time, it takes patience, it requires focus! You only know your wills, your skills, your abilities, your strengths, and flaws! You need to follow your aims. No matter what you face. If you are desperate about your aims, you'll automatically focus! No one has proper plans about their future, its really great if you have one, but can you guarantee that it will be successful? Will it work? for sure? Think about it for a minute, I'll wait. Back already? So what did you think? Will it work? Need much thinking, right? I know how it feels. Not having any plans. And it's okay to have none. Cause, the best things happen unpla...

Living life, more precisely, accepting life, isn't always the easiest thing, is it? At earlier ages, we just do things, anything, literally anything, we don't even try to think of the consequences. But when we grow up, we don't just have to just think about the consequences but live about them. Yes! we have to! But do we? Humans are prone to selfish behavior. Always, believe me, they are! Selfish' is not a harsh word. Even Socrates, also described that the most suitable lifestyle included reasoning! That means humans do not respond to anything without a reason. General human behavior involves two natures. One the rational nature whereas the other part is human as well as rational which thinks and finds reasons for each and every action carried by the body. These things were proposed by many of the well-known philosophers. But why am I telling you all these? Not to remember, but to realize, that no one is going to stay with you all the time, it's go...

Talks, what are they? chats? or just responses to someone's questions? A talk has the letters 'INTERACTION' silent in it. If you want to talk to someone, you have to interact with the person, not just listen or speak. And everyone should know it, rather imply it. Have talks, make friends, that doesn't just feel good but helps one's social awkwardness disappear, and attain some attention which indirectly processes in personal as well as social growth. Woah! That was so heavy, right? But makes sense, doesn't it? A talk is a two-way thing, not just a single flow. I have mentioned many things about listening or how to listen to someone and also why to. If you haven't read it yet,  Click here! We, humans, intend to struggle, for career, for life, for anything we want, we tend to struggle to achieve those things. And in all these efforts, we sacrifice our homes. We sacrifice our loved ones. And sometimes, we don't get to find the same vibes aga...